I believe there is never achieved anything worthy by moaning or whining. If you don't know the answer for 'How this could have happened to me?' it is not really a question anymore then. You just have to get on with it, whatever is spoiling your appetite. After all, even when you have had a bad day there is nothing that a cup of coffee couldn't save. However, when you have had a full blown bad year you just start to wish there was a Starbucks in Stockholm.